I have about four nieces and 3 nephews in the Philippines. Whenever one of them talk to me online, they usually ask for a present. Last time I bought two of my niece a cellphone and the rest, I just sent money for them that way they can buy new clothes and shoes for their school. This time, one of my niece ask for a bike instead of cellphone because she broke the cellphone we bought her last time, it feel in the water and it wont work anymore. Its not her fault though but still, its her responsibility to taking care of it. Its been couple months since she's been asking for another present, she always feel jealous in one of her cousin, she thinks, we favor her much than her. But honestly, we dont do any favor to all of them. I told them I can't please them all and I cant afford to buy expensive things for them especially whenever they ask for it. If i have a lot of money, I will absolutely buy anything they want, but we have tons of bills to pay and my kids also have needs and I can't give anything they want if they ask for it. This morning, we decided to send my family an extra allowance and buy her a bike that she likes. Hope this makes her happy, next time I'll buy something for my other 2 nephews, they just need to be patience and wait til we have enough extra money to share.
Dinosaur Ridge Colorado
3 weeks ago